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Since people have always taken a big interest in the small hole at the back, it follows that they have also found ways to get sexual pleasure out of it. There are many ways to enjoy the anus erotically, according to the tastes of different people. Some people enjoy light anal play, such as stimulating the sensitive area around the anus and kissing the anus itself. Others like the sensation of a finger inserted into the anal opening and gently rotated. Still others are not satisfied with this soft approach and prefer the insertion of a dildo, vibrator, or penis.
Naturally, not all people are open to experimentation with this part of their bodies. The most common objections to anal play are “That is just gross!” and “That’s got to hurt”. Fear of pain, fear of diseases, disgust or even shame at trying such an outlandish are behind most rejections. But if you do get down to it, make sure to communicate with your partner to avoid bad reactions. If your partner refuses, don’t try to force her or him into doing it. It will be a horrible experience, one they are not likely to ever want to try again.
Most people believe that anal intercourse hurts and that it’s always an uncomfortable experience. This is absolutely not true, as thousands of people can testify. As with the regular form of intercourse, the anus must become used to this activity. Many women experience pain on their first sexual contact precisely because the vagina needs time to adjust. In fact, the first couple of times were probably painful and not very enjoyable. Does this make women stop having sex? Probably one in a million or something like that. Anal intercourse falls under the same guidelines for both genders; it takes practice to get accustomed to the activity.
Pain is usually a sign that something is being performed incorrectly, not that the act is wrong. Such as not using enough lubrication or trying to go dry. This is a mistake and you should always use as much lubricant as it takes. Unlike the vagina, the rectum produces only a small amount of mucus, which is completely insufficient for anal intercourse. Also, if your partner asks you to stop, then do so immediately. When experimenting with anal sex for the first few times it’s likely to be awkward for both so go slow and pay attention to the partner on the receiving end. Sufficient desire alone does not guarantee pleasurable anal sex.
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