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When they get really bored with positions and fetishes or when they feel in the mood for some perversion, people usually remember that they have an extra hole in their bodies, one that is surrounded by the mysterious aura of forbidden pleasure. A lot of men are very interested in the little puckered hole hidden just below that special area they love so much, especially men who like to go down on their ladies. Being so close to that delightful part of the female body is a sure-fire way of becoming more than a little curious about the anus and anal pleasures.
In a technical sense, anal sex is limited to direct penetration of the anus by the penis. Unless you have a penis firmly planted in your rectum or your penis in somebody else’s anus you are not having anal sex. This means that the entire host of anal play techniques invented by the imaginative human mind is not exactly anal sex. The relaxed attitude toward sex we see in our time has allowed people to get into both anal play and anal sex, the traditional domain of homosexuals or of those people who like to read the Marquis de Sade.
Unfortunately, a lot of guys are forced to limit themselves to dreaming about anal sex with their ladies because they don’t have the right approach. The more men are obsessed with this, the more women are likely to recoil from such an experience. It takes a leap of faith for the woman to agree to try anal sex, but that leap is not going to come if the man looks like he wants it so bad that he cannot be trusted to restrain himself if the woman finds the whole thing unpleasant. Well, I should also mention that a lot of women are simply grossed out by the very idea of anal sex.
If she agrees, the woman needs to know she has full control of the situation and that you will obey her wishes. She’s the one taking a penis up the ass, so if she says “do this” or “don’t do that” you had better get busy or it will be your last anal sex session with her. And one last thing. Before starting to talk your lady into anal sex take a couple of minutes and think about the old saying: “turnabout is fair play”. So, if your lady asks you “Yeah, if you think it’s so cool how about I do your ass!”, what are you going to reply? Are you going to ask her to do something you would not do yourself?
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