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Since the G-spot is the Holy Grail of sexual pleasure for women, it follows that finding it and putting it to good use is among the best things a man and a woman can do in bed. Many couples have spent a lot of time trying to find the magic pleasure spot, because there is something inherently alluring about a way of boosting pleasure beyond the regular orgasm. More than 60 years have passed since Ernst Grafenberg first said that “there is no spot in the female body, from which sexual desire could not be aroused […] these are so many that we can almost say that there is no part of the female body which does not give sexual response, the partner has only to find the erotogenic zones”.
The exact nature and function of the G-spot are still debated, especially since Grafenberg did not claim to have found anything resembling a magic love button. It is generally acknowledged that the G-spot is a sensitive area located on the vaginal wall, behind the pubic bone and surrounding the urethra, but that’s about it. Initially, the G-spot was thought to be a simple bundle of nerves located in or around the vaginal walls. However, it was argued in 1984 that the spot is actually part of the urethral sponge, the spongy cushion of tissues that prevents urination during sex.
Still, this debate about the true function of the G-spot has not prevented men and women from searching for it and taking advantage of the pleasure it can offer. Before starting your search for the G-spot you should know that no two women are alike. This means that the G-spot is not in exactly the same place for every woman and that different women respond to stimulation in different ways. For some it’s about as close to heaven as it gets, while for others it’s a boring experience that might end in a mild rush. Try not to be disappointed if you can’t find it on the first try.
To find the G-spot, insert a finger about two inches into the vagina, with the fingertips pointing toward the pubic bone. Make sure your nails are cut down short before you do this and use lubrication if you have to, or your lady is bound to get an injury instead of pleasure. Press up toward the belly in the area behind the pubic bone while moving your finger (or fingers, if you wish) in small circles. The G-spot should be somewhere around the place where your fingertips are, about two inches inside the vagina. Your lady’s reaction should let you know as soon as you’ve found it. Happy hunting.
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