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Oral sex is absolutely great and ought to be part of the bedroom routine of every couple, but it must be done right. There’s nothing worse than going down on somebody and finding out that the person in question is not a fan of personal hygiene. It’s even worse when the person can’t take a hint and clean up his or her act, so to speak. So here’s a list of things you should always make sure you do before and during the act in order to get things going right and heighten the experience. Don’t wait to be given a hint yourself and act preemptively.
The most important thing, even more important than the technique itself, is to be as clean as possible and then some. Take a shower or a bath before sex and scrub yourself thoroughly. Better yet, take a bath together so you can be 100% sure that your partner is clean. If you’re really suspicious or if you’ve had bad experiences in the past then you can put on an act and say that nothing is more arousing for you than washing your partner’s private parts. It may seem gross or over the top to some, but it’s better to be safe than sorry. Also, if your partner agrees, this can help trust along immensely and get the relationship going right.
Another important thing is to do it only when you really want to do it and also never to push the other into doing it. You can sense if your partner is eager or not and your partner can sense your feelings, too. Going down on someone because you think you have to is not the best of experiences and should be avoided. A half-assed oral sex session is bad. An overenthusiastic one is even worse. Not revealing your feelings and leaving the partner to guess whether you’re not in the mood or simply anti-oral sex is a disaster.
And the final thing to remember is: know your technique. Take the trouble and learn about it because leaving everything to chance is plain silly. Your technique could be great, but it could be completely boring and unlikely to get anything out of a woman other than a fake orgasm. So, guys, learn about “Licking the Alphabet” and why women like it and then make sure you get a lot of practice. Ladies, you should learn about the glans and why guys like it when you play with it and also why a gentle massage of the testicles is extra hot. Learning and practicing is the only way to achieve a perfect technique that’s going to make your partner squirm.
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