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Oral sex is a term that describes all sexual activities that involve the use of the mouth, tongue and even throat (in special cases) to stimulate the genital organs. This type of sex may be used as foreplay, as a replacement for intercourse, as a means of reaching the climax after intercourse and even following intercourse. One thing that armchair psychologists should know is that the mouth, lips and tongue are sensitive and well-supplied with nerve endings, which means that oral pleasure is not necessarily one-sided. And besides, oral sex is popular because it’s easier to pull off and very satisfying in its own way.
The three main types of oral sex are fellatio, cunnilingus and anilingus. Fellatio is the oral stimulation of the penis, usually performed by taking the glans and part of the penis shaft in the mouth. It’s also common during fellatio to caress the testicles with the tongue. Oral stimulation may be accompanied by hand stimulation of the shaft in order to increase pleasure and speed up the orgasm. A well-known variation of fellatio is called “deep throat” and it focuses on taking the entire penis in the mouth. In this case, the glans is pushed down the throat of the person performing fellatio.
The best oral sex technique is based on a slow approach that is meant to increase the woman’s arousal without spoiling the mood by being too rough. Start by spreading the labia with two fingers and licking her from the vaginal opening up to the clitoris. Keep at it for a while, changing the movement pattern from time to time, and then have a go at the vagina. Most of the nerve endings that convey the sensation of pleasure are located within the first few inches of the vagina, which is why many women favour girth over length. So stick your tongue in. It won’t go very far inside, but you can move it in circles just inside the opening
One of the most common oral sex techniques for the long haul is the alphabet technique. The basic idea is to move your tongue over her clitoris in the shape of all the letters in the alphabet. This suggestion accomplishes two goals at the same time because it allows the man to use some variation in the movement pattern, but not enough to spoil the mood, and to prevent the unskilled lover from using the same movements again and again until the lady gets bored.
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