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After a long and hard search through stacks of dusty tomes of forgotten sex lore, our team of sex detectives has come up with a special routine for those who are no longer interested in vanilla sex and want to learn something different. The first thing you should do is to make sure that you have enough time, the door is locked and all phones are turned off. Set the mood with some music or scented candles and make yourselves comfortable on the bed (this works great in the bathtub, too, so don’t be afraid to try it there).
The basic position is to have one of the partners sitting behind the other, preferably with the back against the headboard (or the bathtub), although the two can also lie on their sides. This position is not meant for sex, but for highly erotic stimulation during foreplay. If the lady sits behind her partner, this position offers a great way to stimulate the man's penis and testicles, while letting her other hand roam around his erogenous zones. The thumb and fingers of the right hand come together in the shape of a swan and gently clasp the testicles between the beak-like shape formed by the fingers.
After stroking the testicles, open the fingers up again and swirl them around the inner thighs. Then stop and stroke the perineum. Next, apply the swan as an upwards movement from the base of the penis, pulling the foreskin (if the man has one) gently up over the glans. If the man is circumcised it’s better to gently flutter the fingertips down the shaft of the penis. Now clasp the base of the shaft and gently and rhythmically "massage" it, pulling upwards only if he wants that stimulation.
The man can sit behind his lover, with her butt between his legs close up to his genitals. He can massage her breasts and genitals from behind using a cupping, massaging or tweaking motion. One way to do this is to use the whole hand to cup her breasts, then gently massage them. From here he can run his hands down her abdomen and between her thighs. Later, the man can turn his partner over and continue to kiss and lick something down her upper back until he reaches top of her butt. Be careful, this area is very sensitive. Massage the butt using circular strokes, slowly moving lower and lower until you can start to stimulate the genital area.
From here on you can either continue with the foreplay or get right to the sex part. If you’ve done everything right chances are that your partner is very aroused and ready for anything.
For more infromation on new and exciting sex positions, click here.
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